Get Out of Your Own Way: Overcoming Self-Defeating BehaviorPractical, proven self help steps show how to transform 40 common self-defeating behaviors, including procrastination, envy, obsession, anger, self-pity, compulsion, neediness, guilt, rebellion, inaction, and more. |
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—Tim Gallwey, author, The Inner Game of Golf • “Busy entrepreneurs don't have the time or energy to waste on feeling bad. This book can help you quickly confront and solve problems that get in the way of your success.
—Tim Gallwey, author, The Inner Game of Golf • “Busy entrepreneurs don't have the time or energy to waste on feeling bad. This book can help you quickly confront and solve problems that get in the way of your success.
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Waiting Until It's Too Late Getting So Angry You Make Things Worse Saying Yes When You Want to Say No Holding a Grudge Assuming They Don't Want Anything in Return xW 11 15 21 25 29 33 37 10. 11. 12. 13. 14. 16. 17. 18. 19. 20. [ vii)
Waiting Until It's Too Late Getting So Angry You Make Things Worse Saying Yes When You Want to Say No Holding a Grudge Assuming They Don't Want Anything in Return xW 11 15 21 25 29 33 37 10. 11. 12. 13. 14. 16. 17. 18. 19. 20. [ vii)
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... You Need Giving Advice When They Want Something Else Backing Down Because You Don't Feel Ready 113 117 122 126 130 135 139 143 148 152 156 161 166 171 Acknowledgments Much appreciation and gratitude are owed to John Duff [ix] CONTENTS.
... You Need Giving Advice When They Want Something Else Backing Down Because You Don't Feel Ready 113 117 122 126 130 135 139 143 148 152 156 161 166 171 Acknowledgments Much appreciation and gratitude are owed to John Duff [ix] CONTENTS.
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In your haste to change a self-defeating behavior, make sure you don't just substitute a different selfdefeating behavior. The new one might even be more damaging than the original. Remember, if you shoot from your hip you can end up ...
In your haste to change a self-defeating behavior, make sure you don't just substitute a different selfdefeating behavior. The new one might even be more damaging than the original. Remember, if you shoot from your hip you can end up ...
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It's great to work on your selfdefeating behavior, but don't get so obsessed that you lose sight of those who matter to you. The more preoccupied you are with yourself, the less likely you are to consider, acknowledge, or even notice ...
It's great to work on your selfdefeating behavior, but don't get so obsessed that you lose sight of those who matter to you. The more preoccupied you are with yourself, the less likely you are to consider, acknowledge, or even notice ...
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Contents
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Procrastinating | 11 |
Waiting Until Its Too Late | 21 |
Saying Yes When You Want to Say No | 29 |
Assuming They Dont Want Anything | 37 |
Playing It Safe | 41 |
Always Having to Be Right | 45 |
Focusing on What Your Partner Is Doing Wrong | 49 |
Trying to Take Care of Everybody | 100 |
Refusing to Play Games | 104 |
Putting on an Act to Make a Good Impression | 108 |
Being Envious of Others | 113 |
Feeling Sorry for Yourself | 117 |
Assuming the Hard Way Is the Right Way | 122 |
Thinking Im Sorry Is Enough | 126 |
Holding It All In | 130 |
Putting up With Broken Promises | 54 |
Trying to Make up While Youre Still Angry | 59 |
Not Learning From Your Mistakes | 63 |
Trying to Change Others | 67 |
Rebelling Just for the sake of Rebelling | 71 |
Talking When Nobodys Listening | 75 |
Pretending Youre Fine When Youre Not | 79 |
Becoming Obsessive or Compulsive | 83 |
Taking Things Too Personally | 88 |
Acting Too Needy | 92 |
Having Unrealistic Expectations | 96 |
Quitting Too Soon | 135 |
Letting Others Control Your Life | 139 |
Leaving Too Much to Chance | 143 |
Letting Fear Run Your Life | 148 |
Not Moving on After a Loss | 152 |
Not Getting Out When the Getting Is Good | 156 |
Not Asking for What You Need | 161 |
Giving Advice When They Want Something Else | 166 |
Backing Down Because You Dont Feel Ready | 171 |
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Get Out of Your Own Way: Overcoming Self-Defeating Behavior Mark Goulston,Philip Goldberg Limited preview - 1996 |
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| Title | Get Out of Your Own Way: Overcoming Self-Defeating Behavior |
| Authors | Mark Goulston, Philip Goldberg |
| Publisher | Penguin, 1996 |
| ISBN | 1101657758, 9781101657751 |
| Length | 208 pages |
| Subjects | › › Self-Help / Personal Growth / Self-Esteem Self-Help / Personal Growth / Success Self-Help / Self-Management / General |
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