Get Out of Your Own Way: Overcoming Self-Defeating Behavior

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Penguin, Feb 1, 1996 - Self-Help - 208 pages
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Practical, proven self help steps show how to transform 40 common self-defeating behaviors, including procrastination, envy, obsession, anger, self-pity, compulsion, neediness, guilt, rebellion, inaction, and more.

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Overcoming Self-Defeating Behavior Mark Goulston, Philip Goldberg. 10) Things We Can Learn from Self-Defeating Behavior Practical Lessons O for Conquering Procrastination, Fear, Envy, Obsession, Anger, Self-pity, Compulsion, ...
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Overcoming Self-Defeating Behavior Mark Goulston, Philip Goldberg. Contents 10 Things You Can Learn from Self-Defeating Behavior Introduction: How to Beat Self-Defeat . Chasing After Love and Approval From a Parent .
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Overcoming Self-Defeating Behavior Mark Goulston, Philip Goldberg. 27. 28. 29. 30. 31. 32. 33. 34. 35. 36. 37. 38. 39. 40. Being Envious of Others Feeling Sorry for Yourself Assuming the Hard Way Is the Right Way Thinking “I'm Sorry" Is ...
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Overcoming Self-Defeating Behavior Mark Goulston, Philip Goldberg. 10 Things You Can Learn from Self-Defeating Behavior Since this book was first published, I have been extremely gratified by the response I've received from readers.
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In your haste to change a self-defeating behavior, make sure you don't just substitute a different selfdefeating behavior. The new one might even be more damaging than the original. Remember, if you shoot from your hip you can end up ...

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Contents

Chasing After Love and Approval From
1
Procrastinating
11
Waiting Until Its Too Late
21
Saying Yes When You Want to Say No
29
Assuming They Dont Want Anything
37
Playing It Safe
41
Always Having to Be Right
45
Focusing on What Your Partner Is Doing Wrong
49
Trying to Take Care of Everybody
100
Refusing to Play Games
104
Putting on an Act to Make a Good Impression
108
Being Envious of Others
113
Feeling Sorry for Yourself
117
Assuming the Hard Way Is the Right Way
122
Thinking Im Sorry Is Enough
126
Holding It All In
130

Putting up With Broken Promises
54
Trying to Make up While Youre Still Angry
59
Not Learning From Your Mistakes
63
Trying to Change Others
67
Rebelling Just for the sake of Rebelling
71
Talking When Nobodys Listening
75
Pretending Youre Fine When Youre Not
79
Becoming Obsessive or Compulsive
83
Taking Things Too Personally
88
Acting Too Needy
92
Having Unrealistic Expectations
96
Quitting Too Soon
135
Letting Others Control Your Life
139
Leaving Too Much to Chance
143
Letting Fear Run Your Life
148
Not Moving on After a Loss
152
Not Getting Out When the Getting Is Good
156
Not Asking for What You Need
161
Giving Advice When They Want Something Else
166
Backing Down Because You Dont Feel Ready
171
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Get Out of Your Own Way: Overcoming Self-Defeating Behavior
Mark Goulston,Philip Goldberg
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Mark Goulston,Philip Goldberg
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Mark Goulston,Philip Goldberg
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About the author (1996)

Mark Goulston, M.D., is a corporate consultant who works with executives, managers, and line workers to help them get out of their own way so they can realize the success that their skills, talents, and abilities deserve. His clients include Goldman Sachs, Merrill Lynch, GE, White & Case, Eli Lilly and Company, Disney, Kodak, and the FBI. He writes "The Leading Edge" column for Fast Company. He was selected as one of America's Top Psychiatrists for 2004-2005 by the Consumers' Research Council of America. Dr. Goulston is the author of Get Out of Your Own Way and Six Secrets of a Lasting Relationship.
Philip Goldberg, a novelist and screenwriter, has authored or coauthored sixteen books.

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TitleGet Out of Your Own Way: Overcoming Self-Defeating Behavior
AuthorsMark Goulston, Philip Goldberg
PublisherPenguin, 1996
ISBN1101657758, 9781101657751
Length208 pages
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Self-Help / Personal Growth / Self-Esteem
Self-Help / Personal Growth / Success
Self-Help / Self-Management / General
  
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